BackWho you’re talking to dictates what you say. Review our Communication Styles if you haven’t already. And remember: These examples show communication skills, and do not indicate correct or incorrect viewpoints.
Choose the communication style of the person you’re speaking to:
If you hear them say…
“So what does the family COVIdiot think about that one?”
👍 Try this…
“Oh, that’s a clever term. This COVIDiot is going to keep enjoying dinner. We can talk later.”
- Snipers want to get a rise, often in front of others. Deflect the conversation until you’re ready to engage, and if you do, talk in private.
👎 Avoid this…
“I think for myself unlike all you sheeples.”
- Avoid using insults to make your point.
If you hear them say…
“Did you learn that at the elite college you went to?”
👍 Try this…
“Is there a point you’re trying to make?”
- Most of the time, snipers aren’t looking for meaningful engagement. Instead put the ball back in their court.
👎 Avoid this…
“At least I understand science.”
- Don’t take the bait or you’ll play into their stereotypes.
If you hear them say…
“Did Joe Biden tell you to wear that mask to dinner?”
👍 Try this…
“Yeah, he texted me right before I arrived…”
- Use humor to disarm your Sniper. If you want to have a serious conversation, follow it up with an invitation to talk in private.
👎 Avoid this…
“Did Donald Trump tell you there are microchips in the COVID vaccine?”
- Remember, Snipers want to get a rise out of you in front of others. Save a serious conversation for when you’re alone.
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